“You’re a hustler” is something I’ve heard several times in my life. Culturally, it sounds amazing, but honestly, it never sat well with me. Deep down, I craved a structured life where I didn’t have to “hustle.” But growing up in a single-parent household where we had just enough to get by forced me to ...
How to Stop Thinking About Your Ex (Even When You Still Miss Them)
Contrary to popular belief, time does not heal all wounds. Healing only comes from intentional actions in the right direction. If you’ve spent your nights stalking your ex’s social media or scrolling through your old couple’s photo album on repeat, years can go by, and you’ll still feel stuck. I want you to free yourself from ...
Negging in Dating: 5 Red Flags That Reveal Toxic Manipulation
Have you ever been getting to know someone, the chemistry feels promising, and then he hits you with a “compliment” that leaves you confused, low-key offended, and questioning if you're being too sensitive? That, my friend, might be negging. And no, it’s not cute. It’s calculated. Let’s break down what negging is, how to spot it, and ...
Are Kofi Siriboe’s Thoughts On Monogamy Wrong?
The girlies are upset with Kofi Siriboe after his recent comments on monogamy. The handsome actor recently joined the cast of Harlem for its final season, playing the role of Seth, a professional athlete not looking for anything serious. He was dating Quinn, whom we all love for her pure heart and genuine spirit. SPOILER ALERT! ...
7 Ways to Build a Positive Self-Image in a Society Obsessed with Relationships
Being single in a world that shames unmarried women can be very disheartening. It can make you feel unworthy, like a failure, like you’ll never meet someone, like you’re running out of time, and sometimes just completely hopeless and helpless. I’ve been single for over 6 years so I get it. I’ve felt every emotion ...