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First Date Outfits Guys Love for Thick Black Women

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I've been thick my entire life. Before it became I trend, I was the high schooler with hips and a butt dancing to Fatty Girl. It was hard to navigate because clothes were hard to find with a waist way smaller than your hips and butt. Even when you got your size, it would still ...

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should I text him

He’s Being Distant…Should I Text Him?

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There's this phenomenon where a guy meets you, gives you all of his attention for the first few weeks, and then begins to distance himself without reason. You've done nothing to deserve this sudden distance but now you're panicking because you think you need to "fix it". So you're asking yourself "Should I text him ...

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high value man

Here’s Your Sign to Stop Dating the “High Value Man”

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I first heard the term "high value man" on social media when Kevin Samuels became really popular. I didn't pay much attention until I dated a self-proclaimed "high value man". This was a guy who pursued me for years and I finally gave him a chance. The chance I gave was my first mistake. We ...

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Questions to Ask First Date

8 Questions to Ask on a First Date to Discover His True Intentions

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My name is Ashleigh and I'm addicted to audiobooks. You may wonder what this has to do with first date questions and I'm about to tell you. I signed up for Audible last year to listen to books when I traveled to Cancun. I thought I'd pay for one month and then delete it after ...

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Date Outside of Your Type

How to Date Outside of Your Type

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When I was 4 years old, my aunt took me to a grocery store and pushed me in a cart. A man walked by me and my 4 year old lips said "That's a fine man aunty. When I get old I'm gonna marry me a fine man." Yes, I said this yawl. My lips ...

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Is he emotionally unavailable

Is He Emotionally Unavailable? Ask These 5 Questions

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I recently posted a blog entitled 3 Reasons You're Attracting Emotionally Unavailable Men where I explain what an emotionally unavailable guy is and why you keep attracting them. In a society that tells men emotions are weak and to hold the pain inside, it's likely that every woman will come across at least one emotionally ...

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