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I used to be extremely male-centered. Yes, me. I know it sounds crazy because I’m so confident and sure of myself now, but that came from years of self-work. Back then, I allowed men to mistreat me. I dressed and did my hair for the male gaze. I constantly felt inadequate just because I was ...

Have you recently asked yourself "is he losing interest or am I overthinking "? If so, this post will help you figure it out. This isn't for people in committed relationships. This one is for the person who is in the early stages of dating and has found themselves interested in someone but you're unsure if ...

I wasn't raised in the church. I began attending church regularly around age 22 and was baptized at 24. When I began hearing the phrase "equally yoked", I wasn't sure what it meant. It wasn't until I attended a single's conference that I fully grasped the concept. Bishop Craig L Oliver of Elizabeth Baptist Church ...

If you're reading this you're either dating a narcissist or your ex is a narcissist and you're searching for answers. I get it, I used to be you. Dating a narcissist is not for the faint at heart. They can make you feel insecure, uncertain, and downright crazy. You invested so much time trying to ...

Being a single woman on Valentine's Day can sting sometimes. I can recall several moments in my past when I panicked at the thought of Valentine's Day. I began to hate my life or I attempted to get a guy to take me out just for the sake of Valentine's Day. Childish, I'm highly aware ...

This week, my podcast episode was entitled "Why am I Still Single?" After ending another talking phase, I had to revisit the familiar emotion of confusion and weariness. This is a common sentiment for those who have been single for a while like me. When these thoughts and emotions overtake me, I give myself grace ...