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self sabotage in relationships

Here’s Why Opening Up Too Soon is Self-Sabotage in Relationships

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My Story I was doing my normal Instagram scroll when I came across a list of things people do to self-sabotage relationships. The first few were pretty obvious. It listed things like rejecting compliments, not asking for help, procrastination, etc. But it was when I read a specific one that I felt attacked. "Opening up and attaching ...

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Insecure’s New Episode Confirms Why You Shouldn’t Date or Marry Potential

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Warning...SPOILER ALERT! If you have not watched Season 4 Episode 3, do NOT read this. Go watch, then read.  Okay okay, I’m being a little harsh in the title. If I'm being honest, we’re all potentially something. We all have things within us that haven’t been fully manifested so let me put this into context. This ...

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daddy issues in women

5 Signs of Daddy Issues in Women and How to Overcome

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Intro I know firsthand the signs of daddy issues in women. I was 4 years old when it happened. The day the man who was supposed to love me unconditionally rejected me and my life changed forever. I still remember it like it was yesterday. My father walked out of my life that day and was ...

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Ask for a Second Chance

Why Do Guys Ruin Good Relationships then Ask for a Second Chance

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Back in the day, I would get excited when exes decided to text me or call asking for one more chance. It gave me a sense of confidence that I wasn't the issue in the relationship.  I even did a little shimmy when I first heard Cardi B say "I like texts from my exes ...

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Questions Other Than WYD

10 Questions to Ask Instead of WYD

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We all hate the consistent "WYD?" dead end text message. Everyone has that one boring person who texts us every single day just to ask "WYD?" with no follow up. I've had men call me crazy for being annoyed by this. But honestly, it isn't the contents of the text that annoys me; it is ...

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man with mommy issues

5 Signs You’re Dating a Man With Mommy Issues

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One of my most eye-opening dating experiences was dating a man with mommy issues. Prior to him, I had never known mommy issues existed. I was well aware of the concept of daddy issues because society yells that to the mountain tops. But the term mommy issues wasn't on my radar and I was in ...

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