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My Story I was doing my normal Instagram scroll when I came across a list of things people do to self-sabotage relationships. The first few were pretty obvious. It listed things like rejecting compliments, not asking for help, procrastination, etc. But it was when I read a specific one that I felt attacked. "Opening up and attaching ...

Warning...SPOILER ALERT! If you have not watched Season 4 Episode 3, do NOT read this. Go watch, then read.  Okay okay, I’m being a little harsh in the title. If I'm being honest, we’re all potentially something. We all have things within us that haven’t been fully manifested so let me put this into context. This ...

I know firsthand what daddy issues feel like. I was four years old when the man who was supposed to love me unconditionally walked out. He didn’t die or fall ill, he just simply chose to be absent from my life. That day changed me. I stopped asking about him, stopped mentioning him, and decided to ...

Back in the day, I would get excited when exes decided to text me or call asking for one more chance. It gave me a sense of confidence that I wasn't the issue in the relationship.  I even did a little shimmy when I first heard Cardi B say "I like texts from my exes ...

We all hate the consistent "WYD?" dead end text message. Everyone has that one boring person who texts us every single day just to ask "WYD?" with no follow up. I've had men call me crazy for being annoyed by this. But honestly, it isn't the contents of the text that annoys me; it is ...