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The Challenge

I felt like Solange in the song Cranes in the Sky because no matter how much I prayed, cried, or drank, that feeling wouldn’t leave me.

On January 6th of this year, I decided to end a one year relationship with a man I was in love with. It was a hard decision to make because I knew he loved me and I loved him back but my gut feeling wouldn’t let up. You ever have this gut feeling that is telling you to do something and it just won’t leave you alone? That was the feeling I had . I felt like Solange in the song Cranes in the Sky because no matter how much I prayed, cried, or drank, that feeling wouldn’t leave me. That’s when I knew I had to walk away so I did just that, I left.

I was hurt, angry, sad, and confused because I really didn’t want to be alone and I didn’t want to even imagine him with someone else but I had to listen to that gut feeling. I broke up with him and from that day forward, I was determined to become better after this breakup and not let it break me. I couldn’t let that breakup be in vain because I left a man that loved me. You know how hard it is to find a man that loves you out here?! Anyway, I left and I couldn’t look back.

I was hurt, angry, sad, and confused because I really didn’t want to be alone and I didn’t want to even imagine him with someone else but I had to listen to that gut feeling.

A week after the breakup, I was heaviest I had ever been in my life. I felt like a fat blob and I had lost my confidence. I was unhappy, uninspired, and ready to just eat and drink my sadness away. After crying for a week, I knew I couldn’t let this break up break me. I had to get my sexy back and get back on my grind because I slay like Yonce yawl.

Almost four months later, I lost seventeen pounds and I am happier and more inspired than ever. I am an author now and I started a Facebook live show that airs every Tuesday at 7PM EST. I haven’t spoken to my ex and I am a better me. How did I do it?

I took everything I did and put it into this free 30-day X Your Ex Challenge. It begins on May 1st and it will be a full map on how to get over your ex and slay. Join now by clicking here. Trust me, you do NOT want to miss this challenge.

 

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